Want some not-so-tame fun in the bedroom? Think sex toys. (No, not those kinky kinds.) Introduce these 7 everyday-item-turned-naughty-props to supercharge your sex life, say sexperts.
Want some not-so-tame fun in the bedroom? Think sex toys. (No, not those kinky kinds.) Introduce these 7 everyday-item-turned-naughty-props to supercharge your sex life, say sexperts.
1. Red lipstick
You slick it on when you're going out on a date, so why not in the bedroom? "Lipstick draws attention to your mouth, and there is something about a painted mouth that just yanks a guy's chain," says Ellen Dugan, author of How To Enchant A Man. For a racy shade, try seductive scarlet lips; and softly plant kisses all over his body.
2. Sexy lingerie
Not only does wearing lingerie helps you look, feel and think sexy, it's also an eye candy for your partner! What turns men on the most? "A whopping 80 percent of men in a survey on sexual weapons declared the garter belt to be their number one choice," reveals Laura Corn, author of Passport To Pleasure. Garter belt and stockings get extra points because you can leave them on during sex!
3. Mirror
When it comes to sex, mirrors reflect eroticism. "Watching yourselves have sex in a mirror is almost like watching yourselves starring in your own erotic film, but you have more control and live action," explains Sari Locker, M.S., M.A., Ph.D., sexologist and author of The Complete Idiot's Guide To Amazing Sex. Position your mirror so you can see the reflections from your bed -- it allows you to show off angles of your bodies to each other that you might not be able to see otherwise.
4. Racy note
Honesty is up there in the list of most important tools in the bedroom, but if you're shy it can be difficult to tell him exactly what you want. A sexy note slipped under his pillow or into his bedside drawer works like magic. Not sure how to get started? Try filling in the blanks of these useful phrases:
"I've always wanted to _____."
"I love it when you ______. Give me more."
"Let's try ______ tonight!"
"When I think about the way you ______, it turns me on."
5. High heels
Keep a pair of clean heels just for the bedroom! "They are flattering to the legs, and men love high heels," explains Dugan. Strut around wearing nothing but your wicked stilettoes and tell him he's been a 'bad' boy...
6. Silk scarf
Then, break out your scarf or his tie, which comes in handy for gently binding your guy's wrists together for some sensory fun. Or use it as a blindfold: "With one of you temporarily blinded, you will more than likely feel what your lover is doing to you that much more intensely," says Lou Paget, sex expert and author of 365 Days Of Sensational Sex.
7. Pillow
A well-placed pillow can help you add variety to old favorite sex positions. "For many women, lying in the missionary position with a few pillows under their butts provides the perfect pelvis tilt for G-spot stimulation -- and orgasm," says Laura Berman, M.D., sex educator and author of Real Sex for Real Women.
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